By entering your email address you agree to receive marketing emails. Bondara is the trading name of Nagook Ltd. My Strap-On Shopping Adventure I’ve gotten several questions in the past about using and buying Strap-On Dildos over at Allsexadvice. I thought that it would be fun to teach through my very personal experience with strap on harness shopping for the first time. So, what follows is a detailed account of my experience.
My boyfriend and I have been seeing this very special woman for a couple of years now. She does live a bit of a distance so we only get together to play about once or twice a year, although lately it we’re trying to get together even more often. Anyway, she’s been really great, the first woman I’ve ever really been sexually involved with. I haven’t tried a quarter as much with her as with any other woman prior. I have for quite some time now wondered what it would be like to fuck a woman. I started shopping online to see what’s out there.
A pink or purple and silver harness and it’s sparkly too. It’s got style and it doesn’t look as bulky as all the others, but a harness has to fit really well if the whole activity is going to be successful. Besides, I’d hate to start the job and have the harness slide down or fall off right in the middle. I have a great sense of humor during sex, but still embarking on this activity will have me a little anxious and that’s one thing I don’t want to have to worry about or deal with. Luckily, I live close to New York City where I can actually visit quality sex toys shops to feel, see and even try on a harness. So that’s my next step, physically handling a harness and finding one that doesn’t make me feel masculine, is comfortable to wear and works well for me.
That’s what I physically have to do. Emotionally, I’ve already done a lot of communicating. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 14 years now and we love each other very much. We’re best friends and the reason this threesome arrangement works so well is because of the trust and very open communication that we have. But I wanted to make sure I wouldn’t freak anybody out, although at this point that would be very difficult to do. So I shared this desire with my boyfriend and he was more than turned on to say the least. Great, he’s not frightened, now I just have to run it by her.